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SPANKING. Eroticism and Punishment
English Discipline is usually understood as one of the parts of a broader concept that encompasses non-conventional sexual behaviors, BDSM. Some authors include it in sadomasochism, although it is also possible to understand it as part of the Role Play D / s, thanks to the fact that it sometimes incorporates forms of sexual relationship in which one of the parties takes on the role of teacher "inflexible" ", while the other party assumes the role of student or student.
History
Historically, its appearance is usually linked to the effect that the disciplinary punishments of English schools in Victorian times had on students when they were later transformed into adults. In that aspect, the book The Erotómano (the secret life of Henry S.), of Ian Gibson, constitutes an excellent and serious book of reference.
Elements
The punishments are applied, in the traditional way, on the buttocks, using for this either the classic instruments (wooden rule, stick, bamboo cane, belt, palm, etc.) or those developed in the last century to those effects, derived from predecessors with other functions, such as the queue cat (flogger). However, it is possible to use any type of instrument to inflict punishment, such as a wooden spoon, a knitting needle, a hairbrush, and so on. And the punishment may also include, as agreed by both members of the consented spanko relationship, palmetazos in the hands or a whip on the upper part of the thighs, usually when it is a corrective for a real lack something serious.
Cane
It is an implement or instrument used in the practice of spanking, especially disciplinary. Although generally used canes are used, it is also possible to use those of completely natural origin, such as the branch of a bush once it has been cleared properly, but it would leave very intense marks when not treated. With the cane a severe localized pain is inflicted, generally leaving marks in the form of straight lines on some surfaces of the skin that comes into contact with the cane during the punishment; In cases of extreme severity, this instrument can cause lacerations by breaking the skin with the impact, so it is an implement that has to be used with great precision and measuring very well the intensity that you want to print the punishment. In addition, the characteristic of this instrument is that the whip is preceded by the whistle that the stick produces when it rips the air, being a high-pitched whistle that can easily muffle a wall. Its origin is in corporal punishment in English schools. The best ones are birch or bamboo, with few knots or, better, without them.
Belt
A belt or belt is a flexible band-shaped garment made of leather or other resistant material that is placed around the waist to fasten the pants or tighten the dress or other similar garment. The whip given with the belt leaves a mark in the form of a strip as wide as the width of the garment itself. With it you can control very well the intensity and the place where you hit, using frequently folded in half, holding the buckle to prevent it from hitting; in some cases it is used without bending, but the control in this way diminishes enormously because the tip of the belt can become twisted and hit in places where it was not intended to impose the punishment, leading to injuries of varying severity, depending on the intensity of the punishment, obviously. The best in this case are the wide, leather and greased belts to make them more flexible, either using horse fat or even with any type of moisturizer that leaves no residue.
Rebenque
The rebenque is an implement from Argentina and Uruguay. It is a piece of cowhide designed to whip cattle. Among its designs include some created with silver handle and designed for decoration.
This implement can be displayed in the domestic discipline to remind the couple that faults are paid. When being designed to whip, its handling is comfortable for the spanker and effective for the spankee.
Positions
On the knees
In this posture the spanner (or spanker) is seated and the whipped (or spankee) is lying face down on his knees. It is the most classic posture and there is a direct and permanent body contact between the two participants. It also allows you to immobilize the whipped one more effectively simply by holding one of your arms to your back, which you have to use to maintain balance. Although in this position the spanker has perfectly within reach the buttocks and legs of whipped, which allows complete control in terms of pace, intensity and other variables that can be introduced in the punishment itself, the spankee is too close to allow the use of all the implements. In this way, you could use short implements, such as the shoe, a paddle, a belt folded in four or only two and rolled in the spanker's hand, a wooden spoon, a short ruler or even a rod of small dimensions , but it would be very difficult to handle a cane or a whip in this position.
For this position there are several variants:
• The spanker is sitting on a chair with one foot resting on something that allows one knee position to be raised with respect to the other. The spankee is placed on the knees lying down as already said, but his buttocks are higher, hardening the punishment without using extraordinary intensity.
• The spanker is standing, with one foot resting on a hard surface, so that the spankee is placed facing the ground practically in balance on only one knee of his lasher.
Another possibility is that the spanker is sitting on something soft, like a bed, with the legs completely stretched, and the spankee is lying on his knees being almost completely lying in turn; in this variation he does not have to maintain balance because the surface of the bed already holds him. It is a position generally used in erotic spanking, with sensual tints.
On a chair
There are several variants of punishment postures that use one or more chairs:
• The spankee leans over the chair, resting the palms on the seat of the chair, allowing the spanker to have perfect access to both his buttocks and his thighs to inflict punishment. This position may have another variant in which the spankee rests the stomach on the back of the chair and the hands on the seat, grasping the edge thereof; in this variant, the spankee remains with the head raised, being frequent that it must look at the wall that has in front, not being strange that the spanker has prohibited the spankee to lower the head during the punishment. In addition, the spankee can anticipate, by shadows, the scourge he will receive. In both variants of the same position, the spankee usually keeps the legs somewhat apart.
• The spankee is placed on his knees with the knees together on the edge of the chair, with the arms on the back of the chair. In this variant, the spanker only has access to the buttocks of the spankee, leaving the thighs of this one quite protected, but the discomfort of having to remain on his knees almost in balance on the edge of the seat is added to the punishment, which prevents the Spankee moves too much.
• The spankee is placed on his knees in the seat of a chair, with his stomach resting on the backs of the two chairs and his hands resting on the seat of the second chair, on all fours. This position leaves the spanker's buttocks and thighs completely within reach of the spanker, which also can not barely move, adding to the punishment the discomfort of kneeling and with the palms of the hands supported completely, keeping all the weight of its upper part . In it the spankee can keep his head up or fully crouched, in the same way that his legs can be slightly ajar or completely closed, depending on what the spanker has determined.
En cualquiera de estas posturas se pueden utilizar todos los implementos, ya sean largos o cortos, más o menos flexibles, etc.
On a table
Again there are different variations of this position, always placed across the table, not along:
• The spankee supports the palms of the hands and the forearms on the table, facing forward or with the nose pressed to the surface of the table, with the legs generally ajar, leaving the buttocks and thighs completely exposed. In this case it is perfectly possible to use all the implements.
• The spankee lies fully on the table, holding the opposite end of the table with his hands, legs crossed in the air, which makes the buttocks tense, thus hardening the punishment. In this way, the spankee can barely move, since it is almost in the air, and must maintain balance. Implements that are too rigid or too strong should not be used, since there is a risk of crushing injuries.
On the bed or the sofa
In this case, the spankee is placed on the bed or sofa with one or more cushions under the stomach, which elevates the pelvis. The appropriate implements in this position are those that are not too rigid, since there is a risk of causing important injuries to the bones by crushing; those that are usually used are those of leather, slippers, short instruments and canes, in addition to the own hand of the spanker, of course.
With hands resting on the wall
In this position, to the punishment is added the discomfort of maintaining the posture that makes the back suffer enough, since it is that the spankee is completely at right angles to the wall, keeping the back perfectly straight, and also the arms and arms. hands, because they are in an unnatural position. This prevents you from making any kind of movement.
In this case, there is no implement that can not be used.
Concepts
Person who Spank - Dominant
The flogger has a position of active authority, similar to that of the tutor who instructs the flogged. In the relationship, the whipper is the one who has to impose order on the mischief committed and discipline through a severe corrective punishment to change the attitude of the whipped.
In the act of punishment is used both the strength of the word, giving a clarifying speech about what not to do, as well as the pain inflicted by the whipping that he gives him with both his hand and with some implement. Whippers also use other punishments in combination with or exclusive to the whip:
• Penalties in the corner or variants of such typical punishment.
• Repeated copy of a sentence or paragraph, or even write an essay or letter about the fault or mistakes made.
• Do not dine one night or not receive dessert.
• Punishment without watching television or deprivation of a favorite toy.
• Prohibition to go out at night or to meet with friends during the day.
Person who receives the SpankAzotado - submissive
It is the passive subject that in the consented relationship Spanko receives the punishment. His role is usually that of a disobedient who has to be disciplined by someone with authority.
In domestic discipline it is the wife / husband who, after committing some domestic fault (eg not washing dishes at dinner), is punished by his spouse.
He has the role of receiver of punishment and pretends to learn the lesson that he will later forget again.
Thanks. This article contains a total-partial extract extracted from what was published in wikipedia.org
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